Just a Little Artist

My baby has been drawing fervently in the last month. 

This little drawing machine busied himself the moment he wakes with free flow of papers, pencils and markers. The productivity has been so high that it stresses me out a bit. 

There are papers EVERYWHERE! On the floor, in every room, on every table and chairs! It is just not funny when I am the one going around the house picking them up. Okay, I admit there are many times when I ran out of steam and patience after umpteen times of 'Please pick up the papers! They should not be on the floor!'. 

Here is a selection from the gallery. All drawn on his own WITHOUT input from us. 

Jupiter from memory! Haha... 

Double-decker bus. 

Wild mushroom. 

Fish. I think this piece is exciting. Since he has never drawn a fish before, I am very surprised that he added fins and also stripes for the fins.  

Amazing rocket bursting into space!! Look at the vertical lines at the lower part of paper to show the fire from the booster engines! :> 

A church!! Haha.... He remembered to add a cross! :) 

Side view of a scary monster that has a beak. Round head is as big as the squarish body, with many tentacle-like legs attached. 

Another monster. This one has many teeth (on right of picture) and a head bigger than the body.

Even bigger head and eye and much smaller jellyfish-looking body with a bell and tentacles. 

Giant mouth with rock-like teeth (on the right of picture).

A different looking monster with sharp teeth and big jaw.

A scary monster with an eye that grows next to the mouth(ful) of teeth, a wattle out of his chin and it has a hammer attached to its chin, ready to hammer anyone it sees! 

A new Stegosaurus with only a few plates on the body and a tiny head. He wrote 'ST'. :> 

This was one of the early pieces in October. A plate with blueberry on it. Later, he decided to add a hot air balloon on it. Not sure why though as he wouldn't say more. 

These two colored ones were his inventions of the expanded Thunderbird fleet which I mentioned before. He called them the Thunderbird 5 and 7.  In the Thunderbird series, there were only Thunderbird 1 to 6. 

What I LOVE the MOST is the fact that he is drawing a wide range of subjects. 

We would be talking about something and he gets all excited, jumps up and announces 'I will go draw you a boat now. You wait here!' A few minutes later, he comes back with his drawing of 'a boat'. Just like that! 

The marathon has started! 

The Flying Fish Wannabe

The boys started their weekly swimming lesson last month and is loving every moment of it.

With plenty of 'aqua-aerobics' and stunts to look forward to, every session is never dull. 

After the first lesson, both boys can't wait to jump into water and swim like a fish. 

Not The Ubiquitous Fish Burger

I always love the fish in M's burger. I am not sure what Indian bun is and he doesn't even like oranges! 

One thing is for sure -crumpets have a special place in the heart of my 5 y.o ever since doting grandma pampered the boys with loads of these 'breads with holes' for breakfast in London. 

Nowadays, I would buy him a small pack whenever I swing by Marks & Spencer and serve them for afternoon tea. It is always funny to watch him savour each toasted crumpet with a nostalgia of his days in London. 

On TV and Raising An Imaginative Child

As the great genius, Albert Einstein, once said 'Imagination is more important than knowledge. For while knowledge defines all we currently know and understand, imagination points to all we might yet discover and create.'

We are all born with the precious gift of a great imagination; how we use it is another matter. 

Like many gifts and talents our little ones may possess, the wonderful imagination of a young mind needs to be nurtured for its glory and magic to work wonders. 

If it is not encouraged and appreciated over time, chances are, our children will turn less to their imagination for entertainment and enjoyment and instead, rely on more passive means of discovery such as the television, DVDs and computer games.

I didn't have any views on this until M was a few months old and my sister gave us a stack of VCDs as present. I stashed those away quietly and pondered. After some research and reflecting on the way I want to raise my kids, I formed some pretty strong views which have persisted over the years. 

I don't introduce my kids to computer games, podcasts or any 'educational' games on DVDs etc. I don't believe in teaching them through an online game or get them to watch TV to learn new words. There are so many better ways to learn about the world and the worldly ways than sitting in front of a handheld device or electronic box of any kind. 

When I want to teach them something, I find the materials and sit with them to teach. 

When I want to keep them occupied while I am busy with something, I still prefer they go play on their own or together, read, draw or do a craft. 

So because of this strong stance I have on the matter, my kids are not familiar with the TV schedules or regular programmes. We don't subscribe to any kids channels either. 

They do not switch on the TV or put on a DVD (we do own some!) whenever they like. They have learnt to ask for permission. When none is given, they protest like normal children, but they learn to understand and accept our reasons and that 'we don't always get what we want this very minute we want it'.

Over time, they have become very good at finding ways to entertain themselves throughout the day when I wasn't doing anything with them. 

Do they feel deprived? Definitely not my 3 year old who doesn't miss TV at all. In fact, the longer the break he takes from watching TV, the longer his tolerance. My 5 year old may grumble at times that he hasn't watched TV for many days. But that protest usually comes when it is close to bedtime and he tries to delay going to bed. If we offer to read to him, that 'desire to watch TV' just vanishes!  

Does this mean that No TV = Imaginative Kids? Not necessarily either. 

I think how we communicate with them and our coaching style makes a key difference in whether they will turn out to be mildly imaginative (can pretend play which most kids can do) or wildly imaginative.  

But it sure means that my kids are not relying on passive means and more on their own imagination to entertain themselves. They learn to be very resourceful in the process. 

Since there are two of them, they ended up communicating with each other a lot more too as they discover, create, problem-solve and play together. They make up silly games to amuse themselves like their 'hunt for witches' or 'hide from witches' games, and hiding in their imaginative tunnels, caves, tents etc made with their beddings......  

One of their cheeky games - Chipsy pretending to be the 'hamburger' and asking M to eat him. They take turns to be the hamburger patty and the other will pretend to chomp it down. Always plenty of squealing and giggles. 

His idea to do a collage when I suggested craft instead of TV. Kept him happily occupied for 1.5 hr. 

Even if their playtime turns into conflict, they learn plenty in the process. 

Occasionally, we do watch certain quality programmes (if I chance upon them) or just enjoy a family movie together. For these special moments of family entertainment time, I like to sit between them, cuddle up and share a laugh together. 

I prefer my boys to view such occasions as special leisure time to look forward to, and not take them for granted as part of a daily routine. The former must bring more pleasure when savoured. 

To Die For

I have a REAL weakness for heels. If I have my way, I will have an entire room filled with the most babelicious heels! 

From the sexiest stilettos to the classiest 3". Of all the sugar candy colors and metallic shades. Of shimmery materials and velvety fabrics. Of princess cuts and hot chick designs. Just daydreaming about them brings such pleasure!

I am convinced I just need to walk into that room if I ever need a little mood lift and the sheer beauty of what I see will do the trick instantly! 

Ahhh.... one fine day, my dream shall come true....